11/10/2009

Published on 11/10/2009 Written by 7 comments

The Whiner at the Table

In my years of gaming I've dealt with rules lawyers, power gamers, mix/maxers and almost every RPG stereotype. But in my opinion the worst, most irritating and contentious player is the whiner.

A whiner is never satisfied. When their PC is is in the spotlight, they complain they that the spotlights too bright, and when they're not in the spotlight they complain that they can't see. In they're minds they are always running at a deficit. Somehow, someone is always getting the better of them and making their little lives oh so difficult, and they want you and everyone else to know it.

Its unfortunate that some gaming groups are plagued with the whiner, and in some cases due to friendship or politics have to keep that person in the group. I have had to deal with it twice in my gaming history and I've developed some rules to help the situation.

1) Whining will get you a loss of XP - This one works with moderate whiners. No one likes losing XP or not getting the full benefits from a given encounter. This works well, and docking XP for being irritating in most cases quells the urge for whine.

2) The gamer time out - This one works with excessive whiners. You're being a whinny dick, go sit on the couch and shut up while we finish up here. The hope is that the person can see the error of their whinny ways and join in later. I have had success with this technique. I think its because its embarrassing for the person to be castigated in front of others, especially when you're at someones house to play a game for fun.

3) If you don't like it you can F**K OFF - This in my opinion is the only way to deal with the extreme incurable whiner. Absolutely no good comes from having them in your group.

Have you ever had to deal with a whiner at the table? What did you do to deal with it?

7 comments:

  1. Ultimate solution, of course, is to simply not game with them.

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  2. I agree. This post was more for those stuck in the unfortunate situation of having to deal with a whiner.

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  3. What do you recommend if your wife is the one who's whinning?

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  4. @Kammorremae, I'm steering clear of that one.

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  5. @Kammorremae, I'm steering clear of that one.

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  6. Ultimate solution, of course, is to simply not game with them.

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  7. What do you recommend if your wife is the one who's whinning?

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