3/08/2011

Published on 3/08/2011 Written by 9 comments

3 Reasons Why PBEM Sucks

Last week I wrote about why playing RPGs via email is awesome. To recap - it's convenient, it's fun and it lets you do things you can't do in person. Sadly, however, like most good things in this world, PBEM (Play-By-E-Mail) also comes with its drawbacks.

So, as a follow-up to last week, please enjoy my 3 reasons why you should think twice before PBEM:

1. It takes a long time
In tabletop roleplaying, the DM describes the scene and the players respond immediately, and then the DM describes how they fail at their pathetic attempts at heroism. In PBEM, the DM describes the scene, sends it out, and then everyone waits. One guy is always sitting at his keyboard and replies 30 seconds later. Another guy (or girl) checks his email when he gets home after work and sends his response a few hours later. Yet another guy reads the message and then his S.O. calls and tells him he forgot about dinner at his/her mother's place and he had better get his ass over there or he's not getting any loving for the rest of his life, and then when he comes home he finds out that his dog ate the Mars bar he left on the desk when he ran out of the door and now he has to rush the dog to vet... and you see where this is going? I don't, because I forgot my point.

Yes, officer, I know I shouldn't be texting while driving, but you see my ranger just totally beheaded this goblin, so I was like trying to quip "Hey, it's okay, don't lose your head!" Get it? You're not going to write me a ticket, are you?

Oh right. Life happens. People forget to check/reply to email, and the game drags on. If you're an impatient person who prefers more immediate reward to your behavious, PBEM may not be for you.

2. It's a fuckload more work
This is probably my fault because of the way I run the game, but I find DMing a PBEM game takes an inordinate amount of time and effort. Not only do you have to write the adventure/scenario, but you have to describe, and write down, the results of the players actions (especially combat). When we play, I have my players describe the actions they want to attempt, but then have to determine whether or not they succeed, and then have to describe exactly what happens. It can easily take me 700-800 words to write out a single ROUND of combat. It's a good writing exercise, I suppose, but it eats up a lot of my time so I wish I could find a way to push some of that work back to the players.

Wait, how many hit points did that goblin have left? Nevermind, where is the paladin? Is he still having sex with that princess? Did she make her T.T.C. check?

It's even worse then the group splits up. As I said last week, being able to split the party and give them information without the others knowing is a great story-telling tool. However, it also means you're now suddenly running three games. And if the players in those three games play at different speeds, forget trying to get them back together. While one group can scale a mountain, fight off a band of orcs and acquire a ton of background info in a day's worth of emails, another group can take a week to play out a simple exchange at the tavern. Great role-playing opportunity, great way to annoy the other players while they wait for you to catch up.

3. It loses some of the spontaneity and social fun of real game
Playing RPGs is not an exercise in accounting or a mathematical problem to be solved. Yes, I realize some people play it like that, and more power to you, but at its heart role-playing is a social activity, a shared storytelling experience, and a chance for people to hang out, eat junk food and have fun. A game loses most of that luster when it's filtered through the heartless, faceless, frigid nether regions of the internet. It's hard to describe - playing by e-mail is still fun, and it has it's advantages, but it's just missing... something.

This. It's missing this.

I guess it's the like the difference between cybersex and the real thing. Sure, one is safer, has that buffering layer of cyper-spacial anonymity wrapped around it, and is available twenty-four seven from the comfort of your home, office or (thanks to iPhone) public transit, but sometimes nothing beats the hot, sweaty, hairy excitement of personal interaction. And yes, that example applies to both gaming and sex.

So has anyone else reading this every done it? PBEM, I mean? Are there any drawbacks I missed? Any suggestions on how to get around the problems I've described?

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9 comments:

  1. JsalvatoriMarch 08, 2011

    If everyone in the group would just get a smartphone, the whole game would get a lot faster. Sure there would be an occasional dog vs. mars bar type interruption, but you would get much faster replies from the whole group.
    For offloading some work - what if you have your players do their own rolling?
    Then you just determine the hits and misses and get to do the more fun storytelling part...

    Of course if we could make a schedule work, there's alway "PBC" (play by chat).
    If we each get our own bag of doritos, we're as close to the live thing as is possible from different ends of the province / country.

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  2. Daddy GrognardMarch 08, 2011

    I'll be doing a series of posts on my experiences playing CoC pbem and the guidelines I've knocked up from that. I hope to get it up and running by Friday (provisionally).

    It may well address some of the stuff you've outlined above.

    I found the pbem wholly entertaining and, given that I can't get a tabletop group together, a very good gaming experience. It has drawbacks, but nothing that can't be overcome with a lot of enthusiasm and commitment - which all my players had in bucketloads!

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  3. Typhoon AndrewMarch 08, 2011

    A drawback would be that people cannot apply the leverage of face to face communications, rather it is written and interpreted.

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  4. JsalvatoriMarch 08, 2011

    1 word.... Emoticons!

    Just kidding. I see your point, but if your players take the time to describe the scene and write speach as first person, the nuances can come across pretty well.

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  5. Tequila SunriseMarch 08, 2011

    You covered it pretty well. I wish I could play PBEM or PBP, but I've tried them both and I just can't keep my focus without the minute-to-minute excitement of in-person gaming.

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  6. CDGallant_KingMarch 09, 2011

    The rolling is a fairly minor piece of the puzzle, though I do think I'm going to give you the option to use a dice rolling server in the next adventure.

    I don't believe playing via chat would work with our group. You've seen our chat sessions. I just can't picture it being productive.

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  7. CDGallant_KingMarch 09, 2011

    Enthusiasm helps greatly. Plus, I find that some people are even more enthusiastic online, because they can choose when and where they play, which makes them more comfortable and thus more creative.

    I look forward to hearing about your experiences.

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  8. CDGallant_KingMarch 09, 2011

    It's a whole different ballgame. Some people like to be able to take their time, plot out what they're going to say/do. But I can appreciate missing some of the speed and chaos.

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  9. Joe NelsonMarch 10, 2011

    Ayup. Every single one of those drawbacks is true. Especially the whole time-sink thing.

    I've learned very quickly that my loose planning style is not a good way to run a PbP game and I imagine the same is true of PBEM. You need to be more prepared and be verbose about certain events, and that can really be a big drain.

    I know one guy who manages it with a very strict schedule. He updates his game twice a week, no matter what, and it's that rigidity that keeps him going through the lulls and the highs. I mean, we all have that time at the start of a game when everything is moving fast and everyone is posting like mad, but then it slackens off, usually thanks to real life, and suddenly a game that might have updated twice a day is only updating once a week and the players who want it faster will begin to drop and loose interest. I've heard that by tempering your players expectations at the very beginning and not giving in to the urge to post frequently, it will get you a more dedicated playerbase.

    I, however, am far too impulsive to ever find out. :P

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